First vacation as a couple? Here’s some advice to get the best out of it
- Published in Valeria Vilar Psychotherapy Articles
First vacation as a couple? Here’s some advice to get the best out of it
By Valeria Vilar, MA, BEd, LMHC
The first vacation as a couple is a very expected and dreamed of time for many people. Some days of relaxation and romantic walks by the ocean are some of the pleasant plans couples normally share during their holidays. But spending so much time together may also turn into a conflict situation, mostly, when the couple is not used to share so much time together without spaces of being apart from one another.
The first trip together may result as stressful as moving to a new house or having a baby. Generally, the expectations are very high on both sides, and at the same time, some may feel doubtful of making the decision of going away together. Hence, leaving on vacation together may turn into the best experience you’ve ever lived, or a complete frustration.
In order to be ready for this experience, it is advisable to be prepared to:
- Disconnecting
The main object of a vacation trip is to take a break. For that purpose, it is not enough to go thousands of miles away, it is also necessary to be prepared to cut with your work and routine as well as all stress causing situations that are part of our regular life. Staying in touch with work, family and commitments will not allow either of you to fully relax; and you will become irritable and more sensible to any problems during your trip. So now you know, disconnect and enjoy!